Being mothers changes us. Much. And some of the things that it does to us is to lose the shame, the modesty, the dream, the musical and cinematographic taste but it is compensated with how much our empathy, patience, hope, fighting capacity and knowledge of love grows. Let's see some of those amazing and a little embarrassing things you'll do when you're a mother and that add to those amazing things that being a mother will make you do.
Show chest
There was a time when show chest You were ashamed. Me too. If you breastfeed this will end, don't fight it. You will take your tit off anywhere, you will buy your clothes thinking especially if you can take off your tit without having your kidneys freeze and surely one day you will realize that, after giving the baby, you forgot to keep it and take half Time with a tit out so quiet.
You may forget the protective discs and end up in some tense situation by pouring milk and with the soaked dress. Nor will you sleep with your pajamas well placed, in the end you will wear it up midnight so that the baby reaches the tit as quickly as possible. You will also breastfeed stuffed animals and even toy cars. It is unavoidable. And you will do contortion to get the tit in the car without unleashing it or unleashing yourself, ending up stopping every ten minutes.
Children's drawings and songs
Your musical and cinematic tastes will change or, at least, they will remain in the background because there are other priorities that fill your time. You will shout "backpack, backpack" when you look for your bag imitating Dora the Explorer. You will know the songs of fashion among children and you will discover yourself singing in the bathroom "The chick Pio", "Winki the spider" or the entire repertoire of "Cantajuego". And it is very possible that you learn to speak "whale".
You will be fond of the drawings that your children see, so much that you will realize that when you turn on the TV now you prefer to watch "Phineas and Ferb" or "Doramon" and that you are stunned watching them even if your children are not in the room.
You will cry with the animated films like "The Lion King" and "Finding Nemo" and you will not stand the movies in which the children suffer and, of course, you can repeat by heart that of: "P. Sherman, Wallabi Street 42 , Sydney. "
You will be very sleepy
Sleep, seriously, you will not sleep in weeks and you will come to think that you will never sleep soundly again. You're wrong. A mother tells you that she has a teenager capable of sleeping twelve hours in a row and then taking a nap of three. But you will be very sleepy Until that day comes. And little sleep makes you make some mistakes or get lost in the middle of an adult conversation with ease.
In exchange for that you may turn on the telephone light only to illuminate your sleeping face and it will seem the most beautiful thing in the Universe. You will sigh.
But surely you do not sleep without waking up in years, and even, when the child sleeps at a stretch, which can be at three or four years perfectly, you will continue to wake up when you hear him growl in dreams and go see if something happens to him.
And when you stop doing it you will miss him looking for you at night or going to his room to sleep although they threatened you that he would never do so if you put him in your bed only once. They go. Insurance. Enjoy the now. Then he misses even if you don't believe it.
Sex and conversations about sex
Maybe at the beginning, when the child is small, the desire to have sexual intercourse until they disappear, hormones and fatigue make us not to be for many parties. But if our partner is really involved in the upbringing and collaborates for the exhaustion does not fall on us only, the ties will be strengthened and the sex will return with a greater union.
But one thing is for sure, the shame, if we had it before, to talk about sex, will disappear. Conversations between women mothers about emotions, sensations and expectations have a dimension of deep sincerity and something vulgar that we did not have before. We have known each other much more, we have been transported by a part of our sexual life such as pregnancy, childbirth and the puerperium, and we know of our women's bodies much more than before.
The toys will come back to your life
You will discover that you are able to memorize the names of thirty stuffed animals, infinite species of dinosaurs and more superheroes than you ever imagined existed. The toys, in which you had not thought in years, will return to your life and they will be an everyday object without which you don't conceive of existence. You will look at the catalogs, discuss sexist toys and guns, you will know what the fashion toy is every year and you will end up recovering with passion the Exin Castles from your parents' storage room.
You will pretend to eat mud cakes and toy meals. You will sit in an imaginary restaurant to make your command. You will decorate the headboard of your bed with dolls that you will say good night and even put them to sleep with you if they are afraid.
You will be amazed at the laws of entropy when you have finished collecting half a room and turn around to find the other half as if a cyclone had passed and start again in a cycle that seems eternal.
All this and many more things are going to make your life as a mom a somewhat chaotic time, fun, exhausting, sometimes hopeless but, sure, the happiest of your life because your great love, your son, accompanies you.
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